@flaviaDaWitch @naga I guess ultimately I'd like to be a live-in sex slave. Rules and commands, dress codes, strict punishments for non-compliance. Chastity, bondage, latex tease/denial, mental and behavioral conditioning, and straight-up sexual torture for its own sake. Perhaps being shared among friends/clients. Maybe a few bodymods? Bit of petplay? Always SSC/RACK, with safewords and sufficient aftercare. Someone I can trust with my life.
Mildest spoilers for Doctor Strange
In Doctor Strange, watching with my wife and son when it's revealed a character has two moms. I've barely registered this before our son grabs our hands, holds them up and excitedly whispers, "two moms!" It's maybe the first representation he's ever seen, and it matters. I'll never forget the look on his face.
Random reminder that while kink/BDSM are not inherently abusive, there are definitely abusers who use kink as a cover. This is why it's so important to insure that kinky communities have high standards, enforce enthusiastic consent in all play, and take abuse allegations seriously
Keep safe out there!
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Submission that's like getting to breathe again, like coming up for air
They held out as long as they could, they really did. Through teasing and torture, pleasure and pain. Their principles were firm, their confidence well projected, but not every creature was built to breathe underwater. It was always only a matter of time before their protests died off, their last line of defence an internal monologue, staring firmly into the eyes of their captor
Then, the break. The right thing was said, just enough to be impossible to resist. All that defiance melted away, and they began to concede. A full-body shudder, the hint of a moan, a whispered 'please' - each one a concession, a gasping breath, an exhausted animal collapsed on the shore, chest heaving. Truly, finally vulnerable.
You don't "have something to hide" when you put blinds on your windows or close the door when you're on the toilet, or wear clothes. Privacy isn't about having something to hide, it's not about keeping secrets. It's about being able to choose what you reveal about yourself, and when, and to who, and the other word we have for that is "dignity". Your inherent dignity, as a human being. Privacy is the agency you have over your dignity.
trans chick with a heart of bronze/chronically underfucked/too many fetishes and not enough $$$/writer/gamer/musicslut/space lover/ugh