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#kink #bdsm #positions 

I found this lovely little poster I just had to share with y'll! 😂

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(BDSM and) The art of saying "no".

Whatever form of relationship you may have, whether it is plain vanilla (non-kink) or D/s or M/s, EPE, TPE, contractual or lifestyle: you always have the right to say "no".

Saying "no" to something just means that at that specific moment you are not feeling up to it! Whatever the reason may be.

Saying "no" does **not** imply that it is the end of the relationship with your partner!!! It won't necessarily end in a break-up.

Saying "no" is in fact an invitation to talk seriously, to see if things are still all right between you, to take time to talk about smouldering frustration(s), to (re)discover (or (re)negotiate) the relationship dynamic.

In other words say "no" is the best way to improve a consensual relationship between adults (even if it contains non-consensual elements).

Whether talking may change your mind about the subject, is completely irrelevant! What is relevant, is the need for communication!

Saying "no" is always a win!

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bdsm vs abuse 

@ropetopus ookamich posted a French graphic (from a French group called Salopettes) about consent which I translated yesterday and plan to turn into a graphic later this week.

Their text about consent goes like this:

Consent
... must be given completely voluntary: being forced to consent following insistant whining, pressure, emotional blackmail and duress, is not consenting!

... must be obvious and stated as such: absence of refusal is not consent. When in doubt: ask!

... must be given by someone fully capable of consenting: someone seriously drunk, tired, inconcious or drugged can never be consenting!

... must be specific: consent is to be given at each stage and repeated every time.

... can be withdrawn at any moment, even during sexual activity!

Mastodon's WebUI needs a new (or at least better) way to handle hashtags people want to follow... 🤔

Seems like some time since we had a discussion about (a variation of) impact play...

A suggestion anyone?

#bdsm #kink #flogging short story 

short story

Her legs were starting to tremble slightly as she felt how her energy was almost spent. With crooked elbows she hung on to the ropes her cuffs were attached to, to prevent her from collapsing like a failed soufflé. She felt the flogger quickly land 25 more times on her inflamed buttocks. Her skin felt red-hot: it looked red and felt hot as hell!

"I think we'll call it a day..." she heard.

With the last remnants of her energy she straightened her head, looked straight into her tormentor's eyes, and with a huge smile on her lips she asked softly: "more... Please?"

Her tormentor grinned back sadistically...

What happened to the good old web-rings of yore, when search engines were not all that all-knowing and all-powerful, and SIGs (Special Interest Groups) tended to link to each other by organizing such webrings?

Speaking of which: I wonder why the fediverse instances haven't yet used this "old" system (or something similar) to point to each other when they have common interests? e.g. language specific groups could point to each, or content specific groups (like the 20-something furry groups).

I'm **not** advocating for the fediverse to disperse in little social interest groups, quite the opposite! But right now most similar "themed" instances don't even know about each other, despite the existence of the instance wizard at instances.social/
Incorporating a ring-alike technology might bring a change to this...

en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Webring

#kink #suspension #lift 

By pure coincidence I happened to see an item in Mike Rowe's "Somebody Gotta Do It" series about the "Mortuary Lift company".

And now I can't stop wondering if there are lazy Dommes and Doms around who are using this device instead of suspension rigging... 🤔

🤣

youtu.be/A7UbyRkgTfM

#kink #gag #flavor 

While on the subject of gags: I sincerely wonder why no one thought of marketing flavored gags for subs?

One can easily DIY make a flavored stuffed gag (simple example a "sweet & sour" gag by drenching the cloth in vinegar & sugar). But still: why no flavored gags? 🤔

#kink #gag #collection 

In the past we have had a few discussions about different kind of gags. So I took the time & opportunity to make a visual collection based on the wiki page... :ms_grinning:

imgur.com/a/gcjI81p

en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Gag_(BDS

Visual Gag Catalog:
1 Ball, 2 bandit, 3 bit, 4 butterfly, 5 cleave, 6 detective OTM (over the mouth), 7 fornophilic (ashtray), 8 fornophilic (brush), 9 funnel, 10 hand (aka hand OTM), 11 harness (with ball), 12 inflatable, 13 Jennings (aka Whitehead aka dentist), 14 knotted (from tie), 15 layered OTN (over the nose), 16 mouth & neck corset, 17 mouth-guard, 18 muzzle, 19 o (aka deep throat), 20 o with plug, 21 pacifier (without restraints), 22 panel, 23 pecker (aka penis), 24 pump, 25 ring (aka o), 26 rope, 27 spider, 28 stuffed, 29 tape, 30 tube, 31 lots of different gags.

#kink #wikipedia #education 

Sometimes wikipedia has some "hidden gems" and I learn that there is a nice civilized word for something or even that there are terms for some "specific things" (like a "cravate" and a "pearl necklace") 🤣

en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Mammary_

Practice
Mammary intercourse involves a man kneeling or sitting on a woman's stomach or chest and placing his erect penis between her breasts, and rubbing or thrusting it there, while the breasts are squeezed around the penile shaft, by either the woman or the man, creating tightness similar to masturbation,] and in simulation of penetrative sex. To create a smooth motion, a lubricant, masturbation cream, or saliva may be spread between the breasts or on the penis. In one variant, the woman can tighten her breasts around the penis and move them up and down to bring the man to orgasm. Alternative positions are for the man standing while the woman kneels, or the man laying back with the woman on top.

I recently was on an awful html5 website that had a horrible lay-out. Whatever...

But it got me to start reading on how website design.

Which is how I encountered this little gem:

motherfuckingwebsite.com/

You have been warned... :ms_stick_out_tongue:

#kink #literature 

Sometimes kink can take surprising forms, even in books where you wouldn't expect it...

8<---
Also, there had been a letdown of sorts. What had I been expecting, behind that closed door, that first time? Something unspeakable, down on all fours perhaps, perversions, whips, mutilations? At the very least some minor sexual manipulation, some bygone peccadillo now denied to him, prohibited by law and punishable by amputation. To be asked to play Scrabble, instead, as if we were an old married couple, or two children, seemed kinky in the extreme, a violation in its own way.
8<---

Margaret Atwood - The Handmaid's Tale (Soul Scrolls - ch. 25)

CryptPad 3.0.0 (Aurochs) is live on cryptpad.fr, notably featuring folder uploads and downloads and the ability to request edit rights on documents that you can view.

See the full release notes on GitHub: github.com/xwiki-labs/cryptpad

#kink puppy-play kitten-play 

puppy-play kitten-play

Warning: Do **not** look at this little clip of frolicking puppies 🐶 and kittens :ms_cat_smile: if you aren't into this sort of role play.

And yes: it was made by a commercial kink porn producer.

Someone pointed me to it, and it is just too adorable not to view if you ask me! 😈

xnxx.com/video-2wz6zc9/puppy_p

#kink historical kinksters 

historical kinksters

Famous historical kinksters (2):
- Benjamin (the genius from the lightning rod) Franklin was particularly fond of elder women. In a letter to a young man he wrote "'... when Women cease to be handsome, they study to be good' and '... they are more discrete', and 'Lastly: they are so grateful!!'"
- Albert (prince) Edward, later known as King Edward VII, was a notorious frequenter of prostitutes before becoming king. He even had his own permanent private room in his favorite Parisian brothel, where he also had his specially designed "love seat" (siège d'amour) which allowed him to screw women effortlessly without crushing them with his huge belly.
- Hans Christian ("Ugly Duckling") Andersen was known for his celibate life, but did you know he kept extensive diaries in which he indicated his masturbation sessions with "++".

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#kink historical kinksters 

historical kinksters

Famous historical kinksters (1):
- James (Ulysses) Joyce was a great lover of farts. Not only did he write whole letters about it, in some he confessed that he couldn't get enough from his wife Nora farting in his face.
- Charlie (the vagrant) Chaplin is rumored to be the inventor of the "casting couch". It is said that he liked to throw pies at naked actresses standing against a wall.
- (George Gordon) Lord Byron had an (in)famous collection of hair locks from his various lovers (women and men). Those were locks of pubic hair which were catalogued and labeled in envelopes.
- (Amadeus) Mozart liked to get "his salad tossed" -- he even composed a (party) piece about it, titled "Leck mich im Arsch" (Canon in B flat for 6 voices in 1, K.231/K.282c) youtu.be/C78HBp-Youk
- Aleister (Magic) Crowley's corner stone of the religion he founded, was sex: orgasms and bodily secretions were ingredients and components of magic spells.

#kink history 

Kink and fetishes through the ages...

* You may think that "tentacle rape/porn" dates from modern Japan (eg Toshio Maeda, Urotsukidoji), but it's not. The first known (classic) Japanse artist was Katsushika Hokusai (1760-1849), who is renowned for his classic Japanese landscapes. He also made Shunga (erotic art), among which his "Dream Of The Fisherman's Wife".
* Did you know that auto-erotic asphyxiation was prescribed by doctors as a treatment for erectile dysfunction in the 17th century?
* Early records of foot fetishism date back to 1220 AD. Experts think the fetish got its start due to fear of STDs (history records show a lot more foot lovers during syphilis epidemics, like those of the 16th and 19th centuries).
* Contrary to popular belief Donatien Alphone Marquis de Sade didn't invent sadomasochism. One of the scenes in the Tarquinia "Tomb of the Floggings" (540 BC) depicts 2 men simultaneously using a woman while whipping her back.

Finally gathered four (kinda) funny images, so that's sufficient for a post!

Apparently there was more fun to be had with a SNES than I knew about...

I really need a new chair!

I'm especially happy to learn that I don't have to panic because "Spat It Up" (a real company!) still has"customized sublimated compression Tops & Bottoms" available! Maybe next year till have "inflatable flatpack Tops & bottoms"? 🤣

#kink #Folsom #NSFW 

Another clip from Folsom's. As far as I can see the clip itself was uploaded 4 years ago, and the sub's name said to be Audrey Rose (the porn actress).

Enjoy!

xhamster.com/videos/hottie-enj

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