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(BDSM and) The art of saying "no".

Whatever form of relationship you may have, whether it is plain vanilla (non-kink) or D/s or M/s, EPE, TPE, contractual or lifestyle: you always have the right to say "no".

Saying "no" to something just means that at that specific moment you are not feeling up to it! Whatever the reason may be.

Saying "no" does **not** imply that it is the end of the relationship with your partner!!! It won't necessarily end in a break-up.

Saying "no" is in fact an invitation to talk seriously, to see if things are still all right between you, to take time to talk about smouldering frustration(s), to (re)discover (or (re)negotiate) the relationship dynamic.

In other words say "no" is the best way to improve a consensual relationship between adults (even if it contains non-consensual elements).

Whether talking may change your mind about the subject, is completely irrelevant! What is relevant, is the need for communication!

Saying "no" is always a win!

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bdsm vs abuse 

Mastodon's WebUI needs a new (or at least better) way to handle hashtags people want to follow... 🤔

Seems like some time since we had a discussion about (a variation of) impact play...

A suggestion anyone?

#bdsm #kink #flogging short story 

What happened to the good old web-rings of yore, when search engines were not all that all-knowing and all-powerful, and SIGs (Special Interest Groups) tended to link to each other by organizing such webrings?

Speaking of which: I wonder why the fediverse instances haven't yet used this "old" system (or something similar) to point to each other when they have common interests? e.g. language specific groups could point to each, or content specific groups (like the 20-something furry groups).

I'm **not** advocating for the fediverse to disperse in little social interest groups, quite the opposite! But right now most similar "themed" instances don't even know about each other, despite the existence of the instance wizard at instances.social/
Incorporating a ring-alike technology might bring a change to this...

en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Webring

#kink #suspension #lift 

#kink #gag #flavor 

#kink #gag #collection 

#kink #wikipedia #education 

I recently was on an awful html5 website that had a horrible lay-out. Whatever...

But it got me to start reading on how website design.

Which is how I encountered this little gem:

motherfuckingwebsite.com/

You have been warned... :ms_stick_out_tongue:

#kink #literature 

CryptPad 3.0.0 (Aurochs) is live on cryptpad.fr, notably featuring folder uploads and downloads and the ability to request edit rights on documents that you can view.

See the full release notes on GitHub: github.com/xwiki-labs/cryptpad

#kink puppy-play kitten-play 

#kink historical kinksters 

#kink historical kinksters 

#kink history 

Finally gathered four (kinda) funny images, so that's sufficient for a post!

Apparently there was more fun to be had with a SNES than I knew about...

I really need a new chair!

I'm especially happy to learn that I don't have to panic because "Spat It Up" (a real company!) still has"customized sublimated compression Tops & Bottoms" available! Maybe next year till have "inflatable flatpack Tops & bottoms"? 🤣

#kink #Folsom #NSFW 

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