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(BDSM and) The art of saying "no".

Whatever form of relationship you may have, whether it is plain vanilla (non-kink) or D/s or M/s, EPE, TPE, contractual or lifestyle: you always have the right to say "no".

Saying "no" to something just means that at that specific moment you are not feeling up to it! Whatever the reason may be.

Saying "no" does **not** imply that it is the end of the relationship with your partner!!! It won't necessarily end in a break-up.

Saying "no" is in fact an invitation to talk seriously, to see if things are still all right between you, to take time to talk about smouldering frustration(s), to (re)discover (or (re)negotiate) the relationship dynamic.

In other words say "no" is the best way to improve a consensual relationship between adults (even if it contains non-consensual elements).

Whether talking may change your mind about the subject, is completely irrelevant! What is relevant, is the need for communication!

Saying "no" is always a win!

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bdsm vs abuse 

every time you type "cat" in linux, your computer meows very quietly

subless 

#BDSM DIY 

Sexuality Clitoris Education 

Taking a wheat beer and settling down in the sofa with a book...
Blue & morose mood...

bondage kitten was supposed to drop by today... :ms_person_pouting:

she didn't... :ms_cat_pouting:

I hope everyone here is safe from the approaching hurricane Barry... ☔ :rain:

#kink #fetish #bdsm 

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University - psychology survey "How do personality factors influence alternative sexual behaviours?"

Purpose of the study: to explore how personality factors influence levels of interest or engagement in BDSM activities. The role of gender will also be investigated.

Type: questionnaire (approved by the Psychology Research Ethics Committee at Oxford Brookes University)
Language: English
Length: approx 10 minutes
Benefits: none
Confidential: yes

Link: brookeshls.co1.qualtrics.com/j

Personal recommendation: "Let's learn more about ourselves!" :ms_wink:

statues humour

The well known French cartoonist Albert Dubout also makes little statues. He made an adorable collection about but also 2 beautiful illustrations of Femdom which are too good not to be shared!!!

The left one is titled "my hubby is tired" and the one on the right "Say cheese"! 🤣

You can find more of his statues, books and artwork on
dubout.fr/boutique/boutique.ph

(BDSM and) The art of saying "no".

Whatever form of relationship you may have, whether it is plain vanilla (non-kink) or D/s or M/s, EPE, TPE, contractual or lifestyle: you always have the right to say "no".

Saying "no" to something just means that at that specific moment you are not feeling up to it! Whatever the reason may be.

Saying "no" does **not** imply that it is the end of the relationship with your partner!!! It won't necessarily end in a break-up.

Saying "no" is in fact an invitation to talk seriously, to see if things are still all right between you, to take time to talk about smouldering frustration(s), to (re)discover (or (re)negotiate) the relationship dynamic.

In other words say "no" is the best way to improve a consensual relationship between adults (even if it contains non-consensual elements).

Whether talking may change your mind about the subject, is completely irrelevant! What is relevant, is the need for communication!

Saying "no" is always a win!

bdsm vs abuse 

Girl Crush 07/06/19 (or 06/07/19)
Linde Merckpoel - Belgian (Dutch) radio presenter & personality.

#kink local distribution 

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