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can anyone rec me music made by trans men thank you

Legit, happy ace visibility day to my friends on the ace spectrum. You deserve love, safety & recognition

In celebration of ACE day I will sending $1,000,000 in gift cards to ACE Hardware to-

They say you shouldn’t count your testicles before they hatch

Lewd, pegging scenario 

*shrek plays in the background*
You: ahhh yeah, deeper... yes Daddyyyyyy

Very specific advice, transphobia vent 

Don’t hang out with people who’s parents ask you why you hate yourself in response to you telling them you’re trans, and then the people you’re hanging out with don’t say anything to their parents; they just pick up a guitar and start playing quietly and leave you to be therapized by their weird covert narcissist mom who says things like “it’s a shame you’re so pretty” and “so you just want to be some strange anthropomorph like mystique?”

Red flags when making friends as a chronically ill, mentally ill, disabled etc. person 

-they press you to question your own judgement/healing up until this point
-being around them feels uncomfortable
-being around them increases your anxiety
-being around them triggers flashbacks, fear responses, etc (and open discussion of this isn’t possible)
-they offer you a lot of drugs for free early into knowing them
-they insist that most people trust them very quickly and question you for being cautious

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Red flags when making friends as a chronically ill, mentally ill, disabled etc. person 

-they view you as beneath them mentally, spiritually, physically or emotionally, and make a point to educate you in these matters regardless of whether they’ve been asked for help, because:
-they believe they can save you or otherwise have the key knowledge/techniques/etc to guide you toward the healing you’ve apparently just been ignoring up until this point. They *have* the solution, though. Just *trust* them

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Red flags when making friends as a chronically ill, mentally ill, disabled etc. person 

-they personalize symptoms of your illness (I.e. getting upset about you dissociating, not making eye contact, etc. without expressing interest in why: instead, assuming you’re rude or disinterested)
-they complain about your boundaries (I.e. “I really wish you were okay with X” or “it sucks you aren’t okay with X b/c I want to” repeatedly, after you’ve set a boundary against said act)

I’m finding myself way less tolerant of other people’s bullshit the more I focus on my own will

asking for money help, boosts needed :boost_ok: 

okay i have weed!!!

now i just need groceries and such

more specifically

we're outta toilet paper

i'd like to go get some before DD wakes up

but idk how much getting this letter sent certified mail is gonna cost and i only have like $12 in my bank account soooooo yeah lol

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Transition, write 

Attempting to reason myself into womanhood was exhausting and traumatizing I’m way I really didn’t recognize until I started to integrate the notion that a man or a woman is what we attribute to those categories personally. When I started to just sit quietly and listen to myself, and look at myself, and I saw this man sitting in front of me... I realized that forcing myself into my given role was an impossible feat, and the only true option was to transform into me as I see him

M/s degradation & control, just a thought 

Little whore. You’re a good little whore for your Master.

You’ll do as I say.

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