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When you're not sure if they have just never encountered a Dom before (poor figurative thing) or are a spam bot (poor actual thing)

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@bedtimedrillsgt there's direct, and then there's presumptuous 馃檮 why do people think it's okay to start conversations with "how long can you fuck?" I mean I guess on like, a hookup app that is explicitly about finding a quick fuck, that's certainly ONE approach. But I wouldn't give her the time of day. 馃槖

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@squeedoodle besides, I laugh at the assumption that the value of an encounter lies in how long you can continuously fuck without interruption 馃槀馃槀馃槀馃槀

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@bedtimedrillsgt yeah that's kiiiind of a boring metric. Even if you are super into sex (which I'm like...not that into on its own), it lacks imagination.

Also, what if you have a fucking machine? Then you could just strap someone in and go marathon the Matrix Movies. :p

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@squeedoodle oh! See that is appealing to me 馃槇

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"How long can you fuck?"
"Well, I payed the electric bill yesterday, so unless there's a power surge, I expect for quite a while."

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@squeedoodle @bedtimedrillsgt do not like! Any kind of first approach that suggests sexual objectification is a red flag for me. I don鈥檛 personally understand what people find thrilling or acceptable about it. You just don鈥檛 know how that鈥檒l be received and it can be super bad. So, much like off-color jokes where someone can鈥檛 tell if you really believe the things you鈥檙e saying... it鈥檚 best to just NOT

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she was trying to get power on the guy. Once he said the number, was up to her to judge. It鈥檚 a way to transfer power.

It won鈥檛 work with anyone into BDSM. Power dynamics are clear to us.

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