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Last active March 1, 2025 05:25

Update - kinky.business has been shut down as announced. I will miss you all!

PS I will post here if and when I make another account on mastodon elsewhere. <3

Friends, kinksters, nerds, and beloved Internet perverts,

I am sorry to announce that kinky.business will shut down on February 28, 2025.

When I first started doing this, for funsies and never for profit, in 2017, mastodon was barely starting to become more popular, tumblr had once again tangled itself up in its own mess, and Twitter had not yet been purchased by an insane billionaire. I wanted to play with the technology, and saw a chance to get together a smallish group of misfits like myself on the Internet to talk about kink with and explore each other's secrets or not so secret secrets.

For all intents and purposes, I was wildly successful. We have thousands of accounts, and hundreds of active users. We have developed a solid (not flawless, but nothing ever is) set of community rules, and had success enforcing them for the good of being a respectable kink instance on the fediverse. Some (many?) instances still defederated us, but I am proud to say that it never happened because of our moderation stance. Consent and mutual respect matters, online and offline.

Alas - running a mastodon instance is a lot of work, and needs love and caring. It also costs a lot of money - helped by our patreon of course, but never covered - and the next phase of growth would require me to spend a lot of time scaling the technical setup, as well as financial investment, and I cannot commit to this now. After almost 8 years, this not-a-business kinky business will have to come to an end.

I have turned off new account creation, and if you have any questions or I can help you with anything feel free to DM me on mastodon or email me at admin at kinky dot business.

Thank you all for your support, your thoughts, all the laughs and turn-ons. You rock.

@takouhai
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so long, and thanks for all the fish 👋

@DaisyHeifer
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Oh no! I'm sorry. But thank you so much for the good times!

OK folks - We need to suggest other adult/kinky/nsfw instances to migrate to!

@DaisyHeifer
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I've migrated to woof.group

@madamestoy
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This is sad to hear 😢
🖤 Thank you for the space you provided and the work you put in! ❤️

P.S. I'd love to hear about any good instances we could move to.

@abananabag
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You've done a yeoman's job, Sarge! Kinky.biz showed everyone that it was possible to have an adult community without corporate backing. And you did it better than the billionaire's forums which have been overrun by twerps and nazis. Thank you for eight years of giving me and my found family a home.

@bedtimedrillsgt
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Thank you all for the kind comments <3

@abananabag
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Madamestoy wrote:

I'd love to hear about any good instances we could move to.

It was recommended to me to switch to kinkycats.org. It looks pretty good!

@lephisto
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Sad. refugees welcome at mastodom.social.

@quirkyjoe
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Thank you for hosting!
It has been appreciated.

@purrperl
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Thanks! It was so much fun while it lasted.

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