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I don't really know how to find out more about my kinks.

@iistnein Hmmm... Good question... I have two suggestions:
*) Have you done the bdsmtest to see what your bdsm inclinations are?
And
*) I strongly recommend you look for a bdsm checklist (aka bdsm questionnaire, fetish list or kink list), download it and fill it in for yourself. It will probably tell you something more about your kink likes & dislikes. The checklist works for subs as well as for Dominant peeps.

I've seen multiple checklists on the web in almost any language (including German 😉 ).

@iistnein talk to someone who knows about theirs. Think about what they tell you, put yourself in that situation mentally.

This will tell you if you dislike something or if you really like it (at least it does for me).

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