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I'm non-hierarchical poly. I have 3 long-term D/s relationships:

- my property "K" (modified 24/7)
- my pet @Boo
- my girlfriend "E"

I also have a non-kinky spouse who is my co-parent

There are a handful of friends with whom I have occasional/casual scenes, and am comfortable with flirting/being lewded at (although, I'm clueless so I might miss it…)

I mean, these are all valid things to exist and want, but can I ever have the slightly-less "how far can we take this kink" versions?

Jesus Fucking Christ

Porn: HERE ARE 3 CHRISTS BEING FLOGGED TO THE POINT OF BLEEDING AND THEN FORCED TO FUCK EACH OTHER

Me: yikes. Ok, maybe something simple like straight porn where the woman is a little chubby?

Porn: HOW ABOUT A 600-lb PERSON CRUSHING A TINY GUY'S FACE?

Me: ok, how about some MLM group sex; a bit rough would be nice

Porn: HERE'S A GUY GETTING FORCIBLY GANGBANGED UNTIL HIS ASS IS BLEEDING

What is it with porn always gravitating toward the MOST EXTREME version of any interest?

Me: hey, I like watching guys get pegged

Porn: OK HERE IS A LADY WITH A HORSE COCK MAKING A FORCED-FEM GUY BAWL

LOOK AT HIM

I know what "Goldfish Swim School" means, but I prefer to imagine them teaching tiny Koi to swim

What people think poly is like: sleeping with whoever you want, whenever you want

What poly is actually like: rescheduling a threesome with two partners so that I can watch kids so a third partner can get a needed night out

Being poly doesn't mean I'm fucking all my friends, FFS. Just because friendship CAN include sex doesn't mean I see every friend as a potential hookup.

I met @Boo as a result of her friendship with K. I liked her but thought she was in a form of closed poly relationship, so didn't pursue. She liked me, but thought I was unavailable. After a couple years of that and a bit of a "NOW KISS!" push from E, we finally sorted that out 😅

I met K and E around the same time. I'd been poly for a while but hadn't really put any effort into finding other partners for various reasons. When I went looking, I found K and E, and we hit it off pretty quickly.

I was not aware of my kink side, but dating a pair of switches who both wanted to submit to me definitely unlocked it. K put in a *ton* of work helping me explore my inner Dominant and sadist, and E was right there supporting it.

I'm non-hierarchical poly. I have 3 long-term D/s relationships:

- my property "K" (modified 24/7)
- my pet @Boo
- my girlfriend "E"

I also have a non-kinky spouse who is my co-parent

There are a handful of friends with whom I have occasional/casual scenes, and am comfortable with flirting/being lewded at (although, I'm clueless so I might miss it…)

Well this ought to be a fun date

My brother is going to be OK! Second opinion says it's not nearly as bad as thought and treatment will be meds and lifestyle changes, not surgery and maybe a transplant

Property's MRI was normal, which while good news means she doesn't have an answer yet, so still stressful for us both

Being pan doesn't mean I can't have preferences. It bugs the shit out of me that people think bi/pan mean *exactly equally* attracted to each gender 🙄

If you find yourself following non-binary folks and wishing you had their experiences, you're enbyous

See, I don't think cock worship has to be a sub thing only. If I tie you down and worship your cock until you're begging to cum, you're not going to convince me you're in charge

My back is finally recovered to "I can do normal things without pain", so of course I caught a cold. 🤷‍♂️