It is proven! I am ropetopus on Keybase: https://keybase.io/ropetopus/sigchain#f5a8b340228cb31ccd0c4c653ab27828d76d82242f386d765f428b4e7832924b0f
relationship explainer (updated)
I'm non-hierarchical poly. I have 3 long-term D/s relationships:
- my property "K" (modified 24/7)
- my pet @Boo
- my girlfriend "E"
I also have a non-kinky spouse who is my co-parent
There are a handful of friends with whom I have occasional/casual scenes, and am comfortable with flirting/being lewded at (although, I'm clueless so I might miss it…)
Other people's choices about what they wear don't hurt you. Other people's gender identity and expression doesn't hurt you. Your sexual orientation is fine, and others' doesn't affect you.
Also, if your issue with trans folks is that finding one attractive might mean you're gay, you're homophobic and transphobic all at once
If it's only that people might THINK you're gay, congrats! You're still homophobic and transphobic
Random reminder that while kink/BDSM are not inherently abusive, there are definitely abusers who use kink as a cover. This is why it's so important to insure that kinky communities have high standards, enforce enthusiastic consent in all play, and take abuse allegations seriously
Keep safe out there!
blockin Nazis
instant blocks:
- Nazi shit without a CW
- Nazi apologia/promotion, regardless of CW
- Handwringing or pearl clutching over people blocking Nazis
- Nazi symbols in your display name or profile
Also, if there's straight up Nazi shit on an account for more than 30 days, bye bye whole instance: your mod policies suck
(NB: "Nazi" here means literal Nazis, Nazi bootlickers, or any kind of race supremacist that has common cause with Nazis)
Orange-haired Dominant/sadist, polyamorous . Wants to know what makes you tick and exploit it. Likes rope a lot.