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Somehow people are always surprised to learn that despite having 4 long-term partners, I usually sleep alone

Sleep is super important, and I've learned that sleeping alone helps me sleep better, and that in turn helps me be better in every area of life

@ropetopus I can't sleep in the same bed as someone else. I toss and turn, get up to use the bathroom a couple times, struggle with good sleep posture, and I tend to be very hot so other warm bodies make me too hot to sleep. Even in my dream home I would have my own bed separate from my partners (or maybe a nice kitty bed on the floor next to my partner's bed).

@squeedoodle I feel the temp thing; I sleep like a rock, so I don't bother partners, but always too warm. My bed is in the basement where it's cooler!

@ropetopus You mean that you get "distracted too easily" when you're not sleeping alone? :ms_wink:

@ropetopus Jalan and I share a bed, but (a) it's a king; (b) it's divided down the middle (an air bed for different firmness); and (c) we use separate covers.

So I get it!

@naga I did basically that with my primary for a while; but now that we have a big enough space for me to have my own bedroom+office… win!

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