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I've spent some time scouring Sinblr, and every other adult-themed mastadon instance I can find, looking for folks to follow. All I can find is people posting porn.

I seem to have made the right choice joining Kinky.business. Folks actually talk about stuff here.

@sinfulsyllables that's why I'm still here! It's not the busiest instance, but people here actually like having a conversation from time to time, and I can still be my weird awkward inappropriate self. :P

@squeedoodle I would really like to see this place grow, or to create more connections with openly kinky people on other instances.

Not exactly sure what the best steps are for going about it, short of outing myself, which is a really scary thought.

@sinfulsyllables @squeedoodle hmm thank you for the vote of confidence :) and also if I can make the whole, more kinky people on this and other instances thing happen, let me know, I wouldn't mind this place growing in active users.

On the other hand, I think one of the strengths here has been that it's not *just* about recycling porn off the internet, and it has come at the cost of scale: people that just want to jack off take one look at this place and then move on to one of the dozen places better suited to that purpose

@bedtimedrillsgt @squeedoodle Yeah, I'm not interested in seeing more porn recycling here, or seeing this place grow at the cost of the conversational atmosphere.

I try to just reach out to new people whenever I can, and grow my conversational circles an inch at a time.

@bedtimedrillsgt @sinfulsyllables i kinda like that the people just looking for an endless stream of wank fodder move onto other spots.

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kinky.business is a Mastodon instance for the kink community. Safe, sane, consensual.