FEDIBLOCK NOW
Trump's new social network is preparing to launch... look familiar?
I advise you get on blocking the below domains.
You knew it was going to happen.
Boost it far and wide!
It was a bit late (thank you COVID for making scheduling even harder), but I got to celebrate my anniversary with E yesterday. 9 years! And in a bit over a month it'll be 6 years with @Boo
Which means all 4 of my current romantic relationships will have survived longer than 5 years. I hope it makes the "polyam people just don't want commitment" folks squirm a bit
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Today is not my Monday, apparently.
Bluetooth headphones on the blink makes it difficult AF to get work done.
The rain is nonstop and I'm tired despite two cups of coffee already.
And.. to top it off, my BDSMLR feed was filled to the brim with gay interracial porn. YEAH. NOT what I subbed for, so how the fuck did that get in there???
Put a fork in me. I'm done.
Sex work, queer phobia, transphobia
Now is a great time to point out that the "concerned liberals" who are often fooled by Evangelical attacks on sex work and porn have a label:
SWERF, or Sex-Worker-Exclusionary Radical Feminist.
The fundie group behind Mastercard pressuring OnlyFans uses many of the same false "studies" and "facts" that I've seen SWERFs use in the past.
There's a great overlap, both in perspective and methods, with the "save the children from the pervs, and the women from themselves" rhetoric of TERFs.
Because they're the same folks.
What might look like the disappearance of a porn site could actually be understood as an attack on queer sexuality.
Any attack on non-mainstream sexuality (and yeah, things that directly compensate creators are Not mainstream) is going to disproportionately affect queer, POC, and disabled people, because of the sidelining of these people's sexuality.
This is some people's living wage.
Solidarity with sex workers.
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hmmm.. wonder what happened to radical.town?
Not that I'd actually miss anyone ever encountered there. Most were rude, self righteous, overly politicizing, wackadoodles who'd see "cis" and automatically traumatise themselves and think it was my fault. Actually, now that i think about it, i'm glad that flaming bag of poop called an instance is #forevergone. 😏
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Time for a short campfire story. When I was about 12 or 13, I discovered the joy of CBT. I remember getting up after everyone in the house was knocked flat, and sneak downstairs. I’d tie and rearrange, tie some more, experiment with pressure techniques (leaning against a couch or just planking on my bound boys). Just when I’d had enough, I’d creep back into bed sometimes still tied and throbbing. It felt wonderful and at the same time, shamefully erotic thanks to societal programming.
45/M cis and switch. Likes to give/receive sensory deprivation, overload and TPE. Additional explorations: raceplay, pegging, and watersports. DM welcome. Slide in anytime :)