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"I can understand the logic behind masochism. A chemical relationship between pain and pleasure isn't that complex. The submissiveness is harder for me to understand. Why do you like doing as your told, or being tied up, or being embarrassed?"

A friend said that to me a few years ago. I couldn't really give him a very good answer. I'm still not sure. In fact, despite his assertions about masochism being a straightforward relationship between physical stimulation and endorphins, most of the pleasure I feel from pain stems from the emotions I have when someone hurts me, rather than some crossed wires in my brain misdelivering pain as pleasure (I'd be hurting myself all the time if that were the case).

So why submission? I can cite the common motivations people give, like how being controlled makes me feel "safe" and "free." But then I have to question what those words mean, too. Free and safe from what? What is the actual desire at the core?

@Lord_Fine the world is so vanilla 😭😂

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*hyperventilating*

Please tie me up, gag me and pull my hair.

Someone asked me if there was more stuff one could make oneself besides floggers.

Of course there are! While I don't keep a library with plans and instructions, you can easily search for "bdsm dyi" on your favorite search engine (duckduckgo, startpage, quant, bing, google, ...). You need to do a little filtering but you can easily get a list of good results.

After only 5 minutes I made this little list for your inspiration:
* http://collarncuffs.com/resources/doku.php?id=craft_ideas --- more ideas at the bottom of the article
* http://frugaldomme.com/manufact/
* http://diybdsm.com/ ---16 ideas
* https://submissiveguide.com/fundamentals/articles/diy-toy-instructions-online --- links to other sites, about half of them are defunct
and (of course!)
* https://www.reddit.com/r/BdsmDIY/

Have fun 🛠️

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