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There is no one-size-fits-all sub (nor Dom). Everyone is into different stuff. That's why you have to NE-GO-TI-ATE a scene before you do it.

Some people love anal. Some people are triggered by it. Some people love being choked. Some people have panic attacks. Some people like being growled at like a feral animal. Others (me) find it kinda silly and start rolling their eyes.

Talk to your sexual partners. Find out what they're into. What's on their list of favorite things to do during intimacy? If you don't show interest, you might just find yourself falling off of that list.

Kink, sex, communication 

I don't get why, but waayyyyyy too many people just...don't negotiate? They try to jump right into it and it's a huge red flag. Not necessarily a red flag of malevolent intent, but definitely a flag of "does not know what they're doing and could easily hurt me through negligence/ignorance."

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