Trollup<p>Hot guy pings me in <a href="https://kinky.business/tags/Scruff" class="mention hashtag" rel="tag">#<span>Scruff</span></a>. Seems to be from out of town. No pic. Profile says <a href="https://kinky.business/tags/bottom" class="mention hashtag" rel="tag">#<span>bottom</span></a>, <a href="https://kinky.business/tags/submissive" class="mention hashtag" rel="tag">#<span>submissive</span></a> , <a href="https://kinky.business/tags/versatile" class="mention hashtag" rel="tag">#<span>versatile</span></a>. Pass, for play anyway. </p><p>But he pings me. Sends a pic. He’s stunning. I mean like WOW! 😍😍 We swap info. He asks what I’m into and I drop my usual litany of saved stuff since I bore of typing it and using time to handle known stuff — see pinned posts. Here’s the menu, dude. </p><p>What gets him off? Flip fucking, and heavy versatile stuff. I’m not his person. I’m not missing out being a <a href="https://kinky.business/tags/bottom" class="mention hashtag" rel="tag">#<span>bottom</span></a>. I enjoy <a href="https://kinky.business/tags/servicing" class="mention hashtag" rel="tag">#<span>servicing</span></a> and being used. It’s what <a href="https://kinky.business/tags/gratifies" class="mention hashtag" rel="tag">#<span>gratifies</span></a> me. There are some things I <a href="https://kinky.business/tags/reciprocate" class="mention hashtag" rel="tag">#<span>reciprocate</span></a> on but top <a href="https://kinky.business/tags/energy" class="mention hashtag" rel="tag">#<span>energy</span></a> is not present. Don’t expect that. </p><p>Why is it somehow reasonable to expect bottoms to do <a href="https://kinky.business/tags/flip" class="mention hashtag" rel="tag">#<span>flip</span></a>? Are we just undiscovered tops? Is <a href="https://kinky.business/tags/desperation" class="mention hashtag" rel="tag">#<span>desperation</span></a> supposed to be sufficient to do things we don’t enjoy? </p><p><a href="https://kinky.business/tags/InternetMen" class="mention hashtag" rel="tag">#<span>InternetMen</span></a> <a href="https://kinky.business/tags/confused" class="mention hashtag" rel="tag">#<span>confused</span></a> <a href="https://kinky.business/tags/respect" class="mention hashtag" rel="tag">#<span>respect</span></a> <a href="https://kinky.business/tags/boundaries" class="mention hashtag" rel="tag">#<span>boundaries</span></a> <a href="https://kinky.business/tags/communication" class="mention hashtag" rel="tag">#<span>communication</span></a></p>