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I jacked this from @[email protected], she got it from @[email protected]

What is okay to call me?

❌❌❌she/her
❗️he/him
‼️they/them
✔️it/its

❗️mr.
‼️mx.
❌ms.

‼️dude, bro, my guy, boi, lad, etc
❗️pal, anything gender neutral
‼️sir
❌❌sis, ma’am
❌❌girl/any other feminine unless it's like "Gurrl"

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Don’t DM me without asking.
DEFINITELY don’t DM me if I don’t know you.

It’s Saturday, so you know what that means!

I am once again asking that you start your own instance. Just do it. Control your own data, make your own rules, and choose what you see. It’s fun. And as the Fediverse scales horizontally, we will each individually hold a larger stake in the network.

Again, if you are having any trouble, please (!) feel free to reach out to me. I will be more than happy to help you out with whatever problems you have.

Set it up on a server that is yours or will be yours

https://fediverse.express/ (online installer)
https://yarrps.xyz/ (a helpful install script)
https://docs.pleroma.social/backend/installation/otp_en/ (official installation instructions)

Pay someone else to host it for you

https://tribes.host/
https://cofespace.com/
https://masto.host/
https://corp.rage.lol/rage

Thoughts on commodifying spirituality, joke?? 

This is gonna age poorly when I start a cult

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Thoughts on commodifying spirituality 

@assdemon it’s a testament to how intrinsically capitalism rules our lives for the worse, even outside of the physical realm, that people will use the spiritual journey to raise their own monetary status.

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Thoughts on commodifying spirituality 

People who charge hundreds & thousands of dollars to give other people spiritual upgrades & teach them how to heal & manifest... make me super uncomfortable. Why do only privileged/ wealth people deserve enlightenment? Why are you charging people for that? Sounds like a hoax. Anyone can heal themselves, and it doesn’t require hundreds of hours of therapy or hundreds of dollars for video-conference faith healing.

its easy to be popular on the fediverse because being popular is just like 3 people seeing what you wrote and snorting

Ok, I’ll tell you something true AND good 

I am OBSESSED with Attack on Titan (as of last week)

Non-joke, abuse, “I’m not saying you’re abusive; HOWEVER,” 

Historically, the only people who have consistently challenged my boundaries have been people who wanted to abuse me.

Age regression, trauma, day-to-day life as a C-PTSD survivor 

Age regression @ work is very uncomfortable. Realizing I have a need for some positive triggers to pull myself out of “little space” (idk what else to call it but it’s NOT kinky)

Anyway enough about the white woman who monetized her apology video: Trans Kids are not allowed to participate in sports in Florida now among other things that need a content warning

A question fit for a therapist, if I had one 

What’s it called if you have several distinct personality shifts (including age regression) that aren’t controllable, but no loss of awareness between them & also dissociation?

@lastfuture @assdemon I was gonna go buy some eggs at the store, but then a roving gang of researchers beat me up and stole my wallet. as they ran off they yelled out something about checking my sources more thoroughly next time.

So when you’re into something, do you spend all your free time researching that interest, the history of it & any adjacent projects, or are you neurotypical?

Im changing my aesthetic from 'homeless vampire' to 'Blade, if he was an eboy'

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