@nevali the only adult instance I know is <kinkyelephant.com> so you can check if it's place for you
@etoiledc @void @nevali kinky,business seemed to have rules about self promoting your own porn, and i got a sense that advertising sex work might not be tolerated there. do you find that people promote their own porn there? like promote as in, advertise and attempt to monetise it, not just posting pics for free. i might have interpreted
the rules wrong
@briellebouquet @void @nevali Oh I'm not sure, I only meant this instance is another kink focused instance. @bedtimedrillsgt would have to say if it's sex worker friendly or not.
@etoiledc @briellebouquet @void @nevali I explained it in a recent thread: https://kinky.business/@bedtimedrillsgt/109305783851675690
In short, we're not an advertisement platform, but *being* a SW and talking about it as part of one's life is fine.
@bedtimedrillsgt @etoiledc @void @nevali that's cool, but yea, i need space where i can, for example, link to my OF and ideally speak with potential clients for in person meetups. i feel like that puts my needs outside of the instance rules, but that's okay.
@briellebouquet @etoiledc @void @nevali yes you are right, and best of luck with your quest I know it's annoyingly difficult.
@bedtimedrillsgt @etoiledc @void @nevali it is. i wish there were a well established sex work/porn instance so i could target advertising to people in my local feed who were specifically looking for that kinda stuff. but oh well. i wouldn't be shocked if something emerges given the twitter exodus. fingers crossed.
@briellebouquet @etoiledc @void @nevali switter was such an instance, I'm not sure what happened to it.
@bedtimedrillsgt @etoiledc @void @nevali they have a memorial page up and i'd read a bit about it in the past. anti sex work/porn laws in the US/UK or somewhere fucked up some part of their hosting infrastructure and they got shut down.
the same people run tryst.link now which is nice, but a mastodon instance was such a perfect space for sex work. i get upset & emotional when i think about how much easier/safer this job would be without all these motherfucking american nazis rampaging like this